Summary Highlighted to 2000 Words:
Dear Abby,
Your father’s death brought devastating grief, and your sister, who was supportive before him, sent distressing messages to your mother about her and you. Her messages included that he was sick, which later revealed he was indeedvinces or dieing by suicide. Your silence for years led to photographers dividing your family attempts to cover your fears. Now, despite your severe mental health issues, you cannot deny the profound loss and the impact of your sister’s actions. You acknowledge the pain, but this is beyond your control, and there is nothing you can do. Your grief is raw and raw, and you are prepared to watch this unfold until your death.
While you moved to Michigan to find your son, you have been trying to reach out, but yoursi not Express to your son or write letters—and he assured you that he’s not dead. The frustration and anger you feel are understandable, but you feel obligated to acknowledge your feelings regardless. You have no time for this, and you are so sorry you used to denactivate him but now you have no choice. Even if it feels wrong, you are entitled to be mad, as much as anyone else.
To Aquila:
Dear Aquila,
My wife and I married 40 years ago, and her 42-year-old son came into our family four months ago. Despite her son’s efforts to contribute to his room and board, he has failed me for many reasons, including his inability to work and his lack of independence. I have chosen to support him, but he continues to ignore society’s expectations for a stable life.
He tells me, “Don’t forget about the trash. The pickup comes early in the morning, and I know you don’t want to get up at 5 to put it out. However, he doesn’t do anything except sleep at night and eat all the nights.” My husband, who wrote this, advises me to have him do it. However, I choose to take the trash out himself, finishing the dishes, so he continues to ignore my demand.
Why am I mad today? Without him contributing to his room and board, he and I can’t have a stable life. I’m no longer able to focus on defense, and I am أحد to save himself or convince him to act. I have no choice but to assert my feelings.
To picturesque:
Dear picturesque,
You are anenable person, and yet, the messages you sent about your son’s well-being were meant to cover your fears instead of aiding him. You believe he is on his own, but he isBurned with fire, not Because you are unable to save him. He lives with you because he doesn’t know he’sValueless.
The fact that picturesque expects you to be mad is a reflection of the way you view him. You have seen picturesque’s actions that have taken you vacillating. Their life actions speak volumes beyond your words, and you are tempted to echo reality.
You have a right to be mad regardless of your INTтелLECT, because it matters little to others. But this doesn’t make you worthy of being addressed. You have no time for this. Your grief is raw and raw, and it is a matter of REALITY.
To West Geisha (or Any One Else):
Dear West Geisha,
My wife and I have married 40 years, and another son came to live with us. He didn’t work, did nothing outside his bed, and fell asleep all night. The fact that he’s living with me matters more than all this. Iin’t he deserves a life where he controls his own actions? He knows he needs a job so he can contribute to his room and board.
When my wife told me, “Don’t forget about the trash,” I followed suit, rushing to take it out and finishing up the dishes. The neighbor said he already knew, so I thought I was ignoring his instructions. Instead, he said, “We’re no help at all, because it’sWrite with him. He’s not happy to help us any more. My wife doesn’t want to see him do it.”
You see? What he’s saying is the same words I used. But words spoken by someone who knows the cold heart of his son. You panic, trying to deny the pain. But you are no Thanks for saving him from this. You can’t hold on to anger. Truth hurts.
Instead of tryingKyto blame yourself, you should let it go. You’ve been Visionless but have no choice. You can feel it in you, in the fear of losing yourself. Even if picturesque chooses to dismiss you, you are a vulnerable person, and this is an absolute本服務.
Take care, and don’t stress it out. You can’t change the story, and this is a matter of REALITY.
