Anthony Aquaro, a name synonymous with dedication, service, and familial love, passed away peacefully on Friday, just a month shy of his 104th birthday. His life was a tapestry woven with threads of bravery, commitment, and unwavering affection for his family and community. From the battlefields of World War II to the bustling streets of Brooklyn as a firefighter, Aquaro exemplified a life lived to the fullest, leaving an enduring legacy of service and devotion. The news of his passing brought a wave of sorrow to the FDNY, where he served for over a quarter-century, and to the Staten Island community he called home.
Aquaro’s journey began in a time of global conflict. Answering the call of duty, he enlisted in the Navy in 1942, dedicating three crucial years to serving his country during World War II. Amidst the turmoil of war, he found love and solace in the arms of his high school sweetheart. Their marriage, solemnized in 1944 during a wartime leave, became a bedrock of his life, spanning an astonishing 81 years. This enduring partnership bore the fruits of a loving family, encompassing two children, four grandchildren, and eight great-grandchildren, a testament to the enduring power of love and commitment.
Upon his return from the war, Aquaro continued his path of service, joining the FDNY in 1953 at the age of 31. He dedicated the next 26 years of his life to protecting the lives and property of the citizens of Brooklyn, serving with Engine 269 on Union Street. His unwavering commitment to his duty earned him the respect and admiration of his colleagues, solidifying his place within the brotherhood of New York’s Bravest. He became a symbol of resilience and dedication, embodying the spirit of service that defines the FDNY.
Even in his advanced years, Aquaro maintained a vibrant spirit and a deep appreciation for the simple joys of life. Celebrating his 103rd birthday in 2023, he expressed profound gratitude, not for material possessions, but for the immeasurable wealth of his loving family. His words resonated with a wisdom earned through a life richly lived, emphasizing the enduring importance of familial bonds and the lasting legacy of love. He considered his family his greatest achievement, a testament to his unwavering devotion and the profound impact he had on their lives.
The news of Aquaro’s passing prompted an outpouring of condolences and tributes. The Uniformed Fire Officers Association Local 854, recognizing his significant contributions, mourned the loss of a man who left an “indelible mark” on the FDNY and all who knew him. The FDNY itself echoed these sentiments, remembering Aquaro as a “good man who lived a long and wonderful life”. His passing marked the end of an era, leaving a void in the hearts of those who knew and respected him.
To honor the life and legacy of Anthony Aquaro, a wake will be held on Monday at Casey McCallum Rice South Shore Funeral Home on Staten Island, followed by a funeral service on Tuesday at St. Clare Roman Catholic Church. His final resting place will be Resurrection Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, the family has requested donations be made to the Tunnel to Flowers Foundation or St. Jude’s Hospital, reflecting Aquaro’s lifelong commitment to serving others and making a positive impact on the world. His memory will live on through the countless lives he touched, a testament to a life well-lived and a legacy of service and love.
